azile
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Post by azile on Sept 9, 2003 10:29:13 GMT -5
um...ehh..sorry to intrude pplez but i have a message to make. is this the right place to make it? oh well:
'yomi' said she was leaving this forum for good. i'm not too sure about the reasons but she said she didn't even want to visit this place again...something about how she's sickened and totally grossed out by some appallingly disgusting person saying some terrible things to her and stuff. i thought this place was civilized, heck, you have all kinds of ppl on the internet i guess. whoever you are who said those nasty things to her, i bet you're happy now she's leaving.
more time for studies i guess.
[Edit] sorry i broke my promise for coming back. i had a message to deliver!
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Post by Eyes of Crimson on Sept 9, 2003 16:41:02 GMT -5
*gasps* Yomi-san.... is leaving?!  People saying horrible things to her?  It wasn't me, was it? If it was, I'll apologize. |
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Post by MaCeR on Sept 9, 2003 18:45:02 GMT -5
I think the whole horrible things being said was just a big misunderstanding.. but if you still want to leave after knowing that then cyaz I wish I got to know you a bit better  |
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Fibby
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Post by Fibby on Sept 9, 2003 20:00:49 GMT -5
it was me. I'm sure of it. But I think she misunderstood everything i said. Well, i can't blame her because all the things she thought i said was horrible. Sure, maybe I was playing dumb, but I would never direct insults at her. I respect her.
In fact, I already sent her an apology. But I guess she really doesn't want to correspond w/ me ever again.
Well, I can't do anything about it. You can't convince someone who doesn't want to believe you. I've learned that the hard way.
and i'm not happy about this.
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azile
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Post by azile on Sept 12, 2003 3:53:09 GMT -5
*shrug* not that i know what's been said, but it's unlikely to be a misunderstanding. i senselessly attacked yumiko (i'm sorry!) after i saw the review for yomi's fic whilst she handled it calmly and found out that there's some idiot going around using other people's names to review. i know my friend is taking the hard line, but she thinks things through thoroughly and must have read through the misunderstanding a few times through just to make sure it was or wasn't one. Sure, maybe I was playing dumb, but I would never direct insults at her. oh, so you're this sick person then? look pal, i think we can agree on the fact that we dislike: liars, cowards and idiots. to play dumb is to act dishonestly; you know what someone is saying, yet you deliberately set to make out as if you don't understand their words so you can treat words/ideas on the literal level so as to destroy its meaning. that's lying, and people only play dumb when they're too afraid to say their true feelings yet nonetheless wish to express it in some other form. you're an idiot to not recognize that playing dumb is to be a liar and a coward. no wonder yomi doesn't even want to look at you anymore. and what were you pretending to be dumb about?! i can give you some advice on net debates: if you feel that you're defensive and personally irritated, take some time off before you reply. if you can't hack the heat levels anymore, just say 'no more, i've reached the limit', otherwise to use attrition tactics like playing dumb not only wastes other peoples time but also shows that you have nothing better to add to the argument anymore and you are needlessly flogging a dead horse. a shame it has to end this way for you, but everyone has their own principles i guess. i'm find with people like you, but my friend obviously subscribes to other principles. look at me! if i continue with this, i'll be the one flogging the dead horse (looks at dead horse and says: poor horse)! ps: did you realize that this is an interesting place to go when one is bored from studying?  [EDIT]: is it ok if i snuck in around here now and then to make a post? i'm a hunter newbie and just started watching yyh! |
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Post by Archangel_Dream on Sept 12, 2003 4:59:26 GMT -5
Awww....I never saw Azile-san besides the fanfic thread....I was hoping I'd chat with u sometime...oh well, it's your choice anyway ^^ YOMI-SAN'S LEAVING?? Aw rats....is it from the religion thread? Lemme check....um.....I hope I wasn't part of the problem.........  Hope I can see u at the HXH/YYH boards, Azile-san! I'd love to see/hear from ya! Have fun out there (wherever u r) ok?  |
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Post by Eyes of Crimson on Sept 12, 2003 15:58:00 GMT -5
So Yomi-san's really not coming back....? REIS!! I don't see you online anymore >< Are you busy coz of school? Hi Azile-san!! ^^ I'm a big HxH/YYH fan too!! ^0^ Hope I can catch you at one of those threads!! |
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Post by M-Chan on Sept 12, 2003 20:27:08 GMT -5
is it ok if i snuck in around here now and then to make a post? i'm a hunter newbie and just started watching yyh! of course you are! you're welcome here anytime.. everyone is.. aww yomi's leaving? well i wish her luck and i hope to talk to her sometime in the future. |
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Post by Archangel_Dream on Sept 12, 2003 20:34:21 GMT -5
^^ Have tests, and I almost got to the hospital again.....my stupid system wants me to stay feverish and deluded ;D Wish I could chat with u, Sammi........ Read the Religion thread.....err......I'm lost.....was that a misunderstanding or something?? Hope u guys sort it out soon....I hate things like that >.< |
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Yumiko
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Post by Yumiko on Sept 13, 2003 3:08:03 GMT -5
Sure, maybe I was playing dumb, but I would never direct insults at her. oh, so you're this sick person then? look pal, i think we can agree on the fact that we dislike: liars, cowards and idiots. to play dumb is to act dishonestly; you know what someone is saying, yet you deliberately set to make out as if you don't understand their words so you can treat words/ideas on the literal level so as to destroy its meaning. that's lying, and people only play dumb when they're too afraid to say their true feelings yet nonetheless wish to express it in some other form. you're an idiot to not recognize that playing dumb is to be a liar and a coward. no wonder yomi doesn't even want to look at you anymore. and what were you pretending to be dumb about?! i can give you some advice on net debates: if you feel that you're defensive and personally irritated, take some time off before you reply. if you can't hack the heat levels anymore, just say 'no more, i've reached the limit', otherwise to use attrition tactics like playing dumb not only wastes other peoples time but also shows that you have nothing better to add to the argument anymore and you are needlessly flogging a dead horse. a shame it has to end this way for you, but everyone has their own principles i guess. i'm find with people like you, but my friend obviously subscribes to other principles. Are you talking about me? ?? |
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Post by Archangel_Dream on Sept 23, 2003 8:35:23 GMT -5
?? From what I read it didn't seem like it...
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Post by Eyes of Crimson on Sept 23, 2003 15:25:09 GMT -5
Yup - you guys sorted everything out, remember? I think it was something in the General or Fanfiction section....
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Post by Calliston on Oct 17, 2003 23:52:29 GMT -5
Well, it's too bad that she's leaving. Even though I wish she'd taken the incident to the moderators so we could help sort it out or something.
*hugs and glomps her board members* So if anything like this happens, could you please come to us, because we'd really like to help. I just sorta feel bad that we couldn't do anything about it.
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azile
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Post by azile on Oct 18, 2003 5:32:11 GMT -5
yumiko: what on earth? how the heck did you jump to the idea i was talking about you? i even took out a quote from fibber's message. surely you didn't think that was your quote now did you? calliston: if someone said in all seriousness that they wished me to die, i'd know where i'd be - far, far away from said person who said it. what could the moderators do? interpret what fibber said? i think yomi has no problem with interpretation. both sides say sorry? personally, i see nothing she has to apologize for, if not for the fact that she wasted a lot of braincells on one deceitfully nasty person who she should have realized never intended to debate the matter with any level of seriousness or depth. and judging from your recent comments in the religion thread which demonstrated a fine lack of interpretative skills and your weak ability to handle arguments in the self esteem thread, i question the ability of moderators such as yourself to achieve impartiality and come to a well explained conclusion which would satisfy both parties. wilfully ignoring someone's crucial point does not satisfy - i note your tendencies to use such tactic and further add that it's hardly the way to go to resolve an issue. in lying and those despicable words, not even a severe reprimand against fibber would lessen the revulsion that yomi feels for him/her. best to leave things to either parties or just lock the thread before a mud slinging match can escalate as fibber had made it. azzy
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Post by Kekowan on Oct 18, 2003 8:59:19 GMT -5
I never did hello.. but still...
good luck and goodbye~~
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People saying horrible things to her? 
It wasn't me, was it? If it was, I'll apologize. 
